How To Work On Your Marriage Without Counseling?

How can I improve my marriage without counseling?

10 Strategies to Help Solve Your Marriage Problems

  • Surround yourselves with people in healthy relationships.
  • Choose to love.
  • Act as if your spouse’s happiness is more important than your own.
  • Put the relationship ahead of everything, including your children.
  • Start over from scratch.
  • Stop taking one-another for granted.
  • Pray for your spouse.
  • Get counseling.

How can I fix my marriage by myself?

Here’s how to do that:

  1. Stop talking to your spouse about your marriage problems.
  2. Don’t tell him what he’s doing wrong.
  3. Don’t tell her what she should be doing differently.
  4. Stop blaming your partner.
  5. Quit giving your friends a play-by-play of your last fight.

How do you deal with a failing marriage?

Here are eight tips to help you cope with what may be the greatest emotional and psychological challenge of your life:

  • Mourn, baby, mourn.
  • Stop fighting with your ex.
  • Let it all hang out — among friends.
  • Reframe your anger.
  • Keep the kids out of it.
  • Take care of yourself.
  • Don’t beat yourself up.
  • Aim for indifference.